Working WAHM 2012-04-16T02:06:29Z http://feeds.feedburner.com/WorkingWahm WordPress Christina <![CDATA[Why Do You Work From Home?]]> http://workingwahm.com/?p=2248 2012-04-11T01:28:01Z 2012-04-11T01:28:01Z Why Do You Work From Home?Yesterday was my oldest daughter’s 15th birthday.

Multiple times a year my husband and I bemoan the fact that the kids are getting older at what seems to be a much faster rate than when WE were their age.

I remember feeling like I would NEVER be old enough to drive / work / go to college / graduate college / work …

And now we long for the days of not having mortgages and bills to pay!

A Time For Reflecting

We had a good time this weekend remembering funny Erin stories from when she was a toddler. Every time I listened to another story I looked at my very grown up teenager and just wondered where had the time gone. It seems like yesterday that my little 7 pound peanut was born and now she’s counting down the days until she goes to college.

My biggest reason for wanting to work from home was so my kids wouldn’t have to go to daycare. Not that there’s anything wrong with daycare; I’m a firm believer in doing what works best for YOUR family and respecting other people’s choices. But after being a stay-at-home mom for 11 years, I couldn’t imagine not seeing my kids for 10+ hours each day.

And I stink at interviewing, so that was my 2nd biggest reason.

Looking Toward The Future

I’m hoping that my teenager will remember all these days when I pick her up at the bus stop after school so she doesn’t have to walk up the monster hill near our house. Or walk up the hill in the pouring rain. And how I’m able to drive her to her 4pm dance classes when most parents are still at the office.

The practical side of me can’t help but think about the amazingly large college tuition bills that are looming ahead and how I have to ramp up my business so we can be prepared for those. I’ve got 3 years to go full force…what a daunting challenge that is.

I have a vision board hanging in my office with lots of great pictures on it but I don’t think it’s working real well in terms of being a motivator. I look at it and think, “Nice photos”. I should have put a big huge photo of my two girls in the center, by themselves, because THEY are what motivate me. The ability to be home when the bus arrives, to help with homework, and to volunteer at their schools when called.

Hopefully they’ll have fond memories of Mom always being there for them.

Benefits of Working From HomeWhat are your reasons for working from home? I’d love to hear your thoughts below in the comments section.

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Christina <![CDATA[The Beauty of a Super Focused Website]]> http://workingwahm.com/?p=1986 2012-04-05T01:54:55Z 2012-04-05T12:00:00Z Focus Your Website To Your ReaderHow many categories do you have on your blog or website?

I ask this because I work as the Content Manager for a client’s website and he has five categories, that’s it!

Part of my job is reviewing guest article posts that are randomly sent in and even though they may be very well-written, very often I have to send back a rejection notice because it’s a topic that he just doesn’t cover on his site.

Is Being Focused Better?

When you start writing your blog or website, it’s so easy to just start writing the first thing that comes to mind. It might be business related, it might be about a friend’s business, or it might be about how your kids are fighting while they’re home on spring break.

But what do your readers want?

For example, if you opened up a doggie daycare center in lower Manhattan, would you target dog owners who live in the outlying boroughs, who would have to travel a farther distance, as potential customers? Not likely. You would have “niched down” your audience to target dog owners who live within a certain block radius of your site.

The same goes for your website. Using this same example, would these doggie day care customers want to receive tax tips every April? Well, they might want to hear this from their accountant but not from their doggie day care. You would be wise to stick with articles about the benefits of doggie daycare, safe dog treats, organic dog foods, keeping dogs safe at home, boarding your dog safely, etc.

Research Your Market

It’s never too late to do some market research and really delve deep into who your target audience is and what they want. After you have this list, go back to your website and whittle down your category list. You’re not Walmart – trying to have something for everyone. You’re YOU – a unique businesswoman who has a special service or product for a smaller audience.

I’m going back to whittling down my category list. I’m down to 30…still have a ways to go!

Feel free to share your progress as you get your site super focused!

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Christina <![CDATA[From the Mouths of Babes: Learn To Say No]]> http://workingwahm.com/?p=1999 2012-03-29T02:22:45Z 2012-03-29T02:22:45Z Yes, this was the lesson my 10-year-old daughter reminded me of today. She’s very wise beyond her years, an old but logical soul inside her small but growing-like-a-weed body.

This week has been just crazy busy with LOTS of client work plus getting my teen ready for her trip to Paris on Friday, AND searching high and low for colonial-style costume pieces for my 10-year-old’s school play. Even though I’m starting to outsource some of my client work now, it’s a slow process since I want to do it right (and make sure I stay within my budget), so this has been a true test of my time management skills.

I think I failed the test.

The pants she’s wearing in the play are also her horse riding pants she wears each week for her lessons and a seam needs to be stitched. She’s been after me for 3 days to do this and she was in a panic that it wouldn’t happen with the play being on Thursday (tomorrow).

(the school play fairies granted me a reprieve…the play got rescheduled so I have another 2 weeks!)

As we were making our 3rd stop of the day, she asked yet again about her pants, to which I said that I didn’t have time to fix them yet. With a gentle sigh SHE said, “You’re too busy. You have to learn to say no.”

And she’s SO right! I’ve been consumed by my work, to the point of being online for many extra hours every day, which takes me away from being with her after school and during homework time. My teen is happy to be left alone in her room after school but my little one is still … my little one.

Time Management Advice for Work At Home Moms

So do you have any tips for managing your time? And what do you say to the clients who ask if you have more time in your schedule for extra projects?

I’m always so tempted to say YES to everything because I see the almighty dollar in my head but I have to get a better plan in place so I can catch up on everything before taking on more.

What’s your advice??

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Christina <![CDATA[Recovering From Being Hacked]]> http://workingwahm.com/?p=1971 2012-03-26T10:20:19Z 2012-03-26T03:09:48Z Computer Hackers Attack Websites of All SizesGood grief. Getting your website hacked is no fun (as if I had to state the obvious!)

I am the first to admit that I hadn’t been giving this site much love and attention when the hacking occurred. My virtual assistant business was super busy as were my kids with their after school activities. The excuses kept coming and I kept promising myself that I’d get to it tomorrow.

How The Hacking Was Discovered

Then I received a really irate email. I don’t know if she was a regular reader or just happened upon Working WAHM that day but she was all kinds of perturbed about the type of content I was publishing.

I found this curious because, honestly, I hadn’t published any content that recently. And as any of my clients and friends will attest, I am a stickler for high quality content (I even proofread my emails before hitting the “send” button!)

So imagine my surprise when I came here to Working WAHM to find the most god-awful articles and a strange subdirectory as my home page. Either the articles were spun a million times or someone who doesn’t know English very well wrote them. It read like the jibberish of a 2-year-old.

On The Hunt For Mysterious Posts

Now, I am not a real techie person. I know enough about the backend of WordPress to upload photos and change some colors in the stylesheet but trying to figure out how someone created a subdirectory for my site was beyond my expertise. And to make matters worse, when I looked at my post directory, NONE of these mystery posts appeared!

Honestly, I was about to just give up and shut the whole site down.

While my head was spinning, I noticed there were some comments that needed approval, so I went to the comments section. This was the key to discovering the mysterious posts because the unapproved comments were linked to the articles I never wrote. So I had to click on the article title in the comments section and was brought to a different post dashboard which contained ALL the mystery posts.

Let me tell you, there were HUNDREDS of these garbage posts! Thank goodness for the bulk delete function because it didn’t take long to delete them all but I was fuming because I certainly didn’t want to take the time to delete all these posts. I have better things to do with my time, you evil hackers!

Lessons Learned

  • Keep your blog up to date. If I was logging in even twice a week I would have discovered the hacking much sooner.
  • Change your password frequently. I don’t know how but these hackers are able to infiltrate passwords that aren’t original or that have been active for too long.
  • Keep your users list up to date. Turns out the hackers were using one of my users’ logins to add these posts. Since she’s a contributor, I couldn’t just delete her user profile without messing up all her content, so I changed her password, too.
  • Good manners mean the world. While I appreciated the reader’s email, I was also miffed at her because she was very accusatory and rude, almost accusing me of being a scam artist. She doesn’t know me from the proverbial hole-in-the-wall so it was highly insulting. We’re all adults here…if you don’t agree with something that was written on the web, inquire kindly or just ignore it.

Here’s to hoping you never get hacked!

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Christina <![CDATA[I’ve Been Hacked…]]> http://workingwahm.com/?p=1950 2012-03-29T16:52:59Z 2012-02-20T18:10:59Z My apologies for the bad design. Apparently some hacker found his way into my blog not once but TWICE and placed some garbage posts for all to see.

I’m truly not sure what purpose hacking serves because these posts were NOT informative; in fact, they barely made any sense at all.

Maybe somebody is testing out a new article spinning software or something but it’s certainly annoying!

So, if you’re new here, I hope to have the design reworked by the end of the week.

A blog post will be coming shortly as well about how I discovered this and how this is one of the risks you take when you don’t keep your website updated, both with content and with wordpress updates.

Thanks for understanding!

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Christina <![CDATA[Getting Started Part 1: Identify Your Strengths & Weaknesses]]> http://workingwahm.com/?p=1326 2012-04-04T19:11:31Z 2011-11-29T03:31:25Z
Work at Home Strengths and Weaknesses

Are you cut out for working from home? Not everyone is and that’s totally fine; but before you take the plunge and decide to quit your day job, we’ll be going through the thought process that every work at home entrepreneur or freelancer should perform in this week’s series of articles.

Today we’re examining your strengths and weaknesses. And one way to make this self-examination work is to be very honest with yourself when answering these questions. You certainly want to have confidence about your venture and I don’t want to be your dream killer but you need to be realistic or you run the risk of hitting a financial wall of ruin.

1. Are you self-motivated and able to get yourself organized to complete whatever tasks are necessary each day? When you’re working as your own boss from a home office, there’s no manager looking over your shoulder or noting how long you took for lunch.

The responsibility is yours alone and you alone will pay the consequences if deadlines are not met. This is true of any service provider who has client work to perform and is equally true of internet marketers who make their money producing or promoting products. This added responsibility is often enough motivation to get you going in the morning but sometimes an extra push is needed. Do you know who will give you that push?

2. What type of work can you do? What skills have your previous jobs given you that you can transfer to an online business? Each of your previous jobs have been learning experiences so figure out what you learned in each position.

Many work at home businesses tend to be internet businesses, which make any computer skills you have mighty important. But even if you’ve worked at restaurants your whole career, do you have enough food knowledge to start a food blog, write a cookbook, or start a catering business from your home?

3. What type of work do you enjoy? Enjoying your work and having a certain skill set are two completely different things. I graduated college with an advertising degree and in December of my senior year I realized I didn’t like anything about advertising! I still paid my dues working at an ad agency but was it enjoyable? No way!

This list of enjoyable tasks might be significantly different from your list of skills from above but that’s alright. Just keep in mind that pursuing that enjoyable work might take extra training but nothing is impossible.

4. What tasks do you despise? If talking to new people gives you sweaty palms, then being a member of a direct sales company might not be the right fit for you. Likewise, you might be the best salesperson around but if you hate doing your bookkeeping tasks, you’ll be an accountant’s worst nightmare come tax season.

If there’s something you really dislike doing, keep in mind that you’ll have to hire someone else to do the task.

5. How do you handle distractions? If your mom or best friend call you to chat on Tuesday morning, will you answer the phone? How many loads of laundry do you plan on doing while working? Will you still need to work when the kids get home from school?

Setting personal boundaries is an important strength for the work at home business owner because without boundaries, you’ll try to fit personal tasks in between your business tasks. While some people are good at multitasking this way, there are just as many who don’t multitask well and need more focus.

So…did you answer honestly? Is your brain pumping with ideas of how you can work from home? Keep that excitement up and stay tuned for the second installment of this series.

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Christina <![CDATA[Why Update WordPress & WordPress Plugins]]> http://workingwahm.com/?p=1288 2012-03-29T16:53:21Z 2011-09-02T01:38:56Z Wordpress Content Management SystemAs you probably already know, WordPress is a very popular Content Management System which is open source and available to absolutely anyone, free of charge.

(The charge for owning a website comes with purchasing a domain name and a web hosting package.)

The amazing thing about WordPress is that even though it’s free, it’s incredibly powerful. So much so that I cursed myself 4 years ago when I was trying to learn all its features. At the time it seemed very complicated. Today, I don’t know where I’d be if I hadn’t learned it.

Beginners beware: there is a slight learning curve to WordPress but it’s well worth your time to learn it.

Customize Your Website with WordPress Plugins

Not everyone needs the same exact WordPress features and that’s where plugins come into play. A plugin is an additional program / piece of code that you can install on your site to add a new, special feature.

For example, WordPress does not come with any social media buttons. All those social media buttons you see on other people’s sites are plugins. Once WordPress was installed, they downloaded and installed a separate plugin / code to make those social media buttons appear.

Thousands of these plugins are free of charge while others with more intense features are paid plugins. If you’re just starting your business, you can certainly get by with the variety of free plugins. When you start earning money and want to invest in a paid plugin, please do your research and search out reviews before parting with your hard-earned money.

Updating WordPress & WordPress Plugins

Just like every other computer program you’ve ever owned, new versions of WordPress and its plugins are developed all the time. Not only do they try to improve the features but regular updates also prevent hackers from breaking into your prized website and wreaking havoc.

How do you know when to update? WordPress will tell you!

When you first login to WordPress you’re brought to your Dashboard. If you see this yellowish rectangle at the top of your dashboard page, it’s time to update your version of WordPress.

When To Update WordPress

The same is true for updating your plugins, except look for that notification along the left sidebar of your dashboard, where it says “Plugins”.

Updating WordPress Plugins

That little number next to the Plugin title? That’s how many of your activated plugins need updating. Simply click on the Plugin link and you’ll see exactly which plugins need attention.

Wordpress Plugin Updating

How to Upgrade to the Newest Version of WordPress or Your Plugins

Before you upgrade anything to a new version, create a backup of your site. Many times that can be done via your hosting service and I believe there’s even a plugin to do that for you.

There are 2 schools of thought on the actual next steps for upgrading to new versions of WordPress and its plugins. Some people will argue that updating both WordPress and your plugins manually is best and will pose the least security threat.

Personally, in the last 4 years I’ve been in business, I’ve had excellent luck with clicking on the “Update Automatically” links. In literally 1 minute or less the update is done, usually with no catastrophic results.

That said, occasionally there have been plugin updates that make my site look screwy; for whatever reason the newest version isn’t compatible with my other plugins or theme. So my advice is to upgrade just one plugin at a time and check your site before upgrading any others.

Have a Problem? Ask Your Hosting Provider for Help

Reliable web hosting companies are supposed to backup their servers on a regular basis. This could be weekly or daily, depending on the company and on what package you purchased.

If you upgrade WordPress or any plugins and your site gets messy in the process, contact your host and ask them to upload your site’s backup file. Again, depending on the hosting company there might be a nominal fee for this (it’s a good question to ask prior to purchasing your hosting package).

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